There maybe times when we become so miserable and ask ourselves why God allow us to experience unbearable pain.
God doesnt delight in our misery.Pain is God's way of purifying us and making us better person and when he allows us to experience it, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love us.
We may have been destined to love the man who cannot love us back, but that doesnt mean life ends.
We might have fallen in love with a Man who can not be OURS, but that doesn't mean that there is no one
WHO CAN BE.
We might have LOVE been HURT BADLY, but that doesn't mean the PAIN will NEVER PASS.
Everything that happens to us happens for a reason. , and as the saying goes "sometimes the person who make us happy is the same person who can hurt us and makes us cry".
It is perfectly alright to feel sorry for losing "him", but we cannot be sorry ALL our LIFE..It is okay to CRY ourself to sleep at night, but "we cannot cry everynight all our life". It is okay to think of him when we wake up in the morning but we can not let him take control of OUR thoughts FOREVER..
It's okay to feel "Sorry" long enough, but if we feel we have shown soo much REGRET already then..
IT'S OVER...!
It's about time to to accept that there could never be any "YOU and HIM" anymore..
He is GONE.. and Has MOVED on with his LIFE..
and we should not in any way "allow ourselves to be left behind, following his shadows.."
We have to MOVE ON, and find OUR OWN HAPPINESS,even if it means not BEING WITH HIM....
Let us always remember that love isn't love if it doesn't hurt.
And it is better to be HURT by LOVE than not to be HURT because we we're to afraid to love.
The only way to move on is to accept reality..
It will help if we will let the pain of LOVE has brought us and make us a stronger person.
Let the tears that we cried wash away the bitterness and misery our hearts..
One day you will be able to move on and forget all the hurt.. it is just a passing phase...
Date written : October 18, 2006
God doesnt delight in our misery.Pain is God's way of purifying us and making us better person and when he allows us to experience it, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love us.
We may have been destined to love the man who cannot love us back, but that doesnt mean life ends.
We might have fallen in love with a Man who can not be OURS, but that doesn't mean that there is no one
WHO CAN BE.
We might have LOVE been HURT BADLY, but that doesn't mean the PAIN will NEVER PASS.
Everything that happens to us happens for a reason. , and as the saying goes "sometimes the person who make us happy is the same person who can hurt us and makes us cry".
It is perfectly alright to feel sorry for losing "him", but we cannot be sorry ALL our LIFE..It is okay to CRY ourself to sleep at night, but "we cannot cry everynight all our life". It is okay to think of him when we wake up in the morning but we can not let him take control of OUR thoughts FOREVER..
IT'S OVER...!
It's about time to to accept that there could never be any "YOU and HIM" anymore..
He is GONE.. and Has MOVED on with his LIFE..
and we should not in any way "allow ourselves to be left behind, following his shadows.."
We have to MOVE ON, and find OUR OWN HAPPINESS,even if it means not BEING WITH HIM....
And it is better to be HURT by LOVE than not to be HURT because we we're to afraid to love.
The only way to move on is to accept reality..
It will help if we will let the pain of LOVE has brought us and make us a stronger person.
Let the tears that we cried wash away the bitterness and misery our hearts..
One day you will be able to move on and forget all the hurt.. it is just a passing phase...
Date written : October 18, 2006
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