**Waiting in Vain**

 Sometimes what we are  just seeing is icing on the cake. It's what is truly behind what a man say
 that really matters. A man distances himself from a woman for a reason, sometimes he wanted
 out because he wants to prove something to himself. He wants to be worthy of our love.
 These are valid reason, but could there be more?!

 I have always believe that unless two people in a relationship are able to openly tell each other
 what they feel inside "good" or "bad" they can never truly understand each other.It is extremelly
 important a man tells what he truly feels in a relationships.It is also his responsibility to tell us
 if we would just be waiitng in vain or if he just needs a little time., But love doesnt make people 
 wait., if we really love someone then we should not play with time and promises. If we dont love
 a person anymore, then we just have to be honest about it, EVEN IF IT HURTS....

 Not wanting to let go is sometimes just being fair to oneself., by waiting for something good to happen,
 waiting is the option that most people take., but sometimes they refuses to accept even it is obvious
 that they are just waiting in vain.....

 Sometimes, we have to use our mind over our hearts,when our feelings get too strong. When we think
 with our hearts..

 Loving means clinging on when what we really need to do is  LET GO..
 even if we still wanted to HOLD ON.... =(